Observer and the side of being observed

I am sure I will make today build on my own beautifully, mentally physically, literally -  now I am reading a book side by side, whose story is a new work created by a former Nobel Prize-winning writer - main character’s delicate emotions and its subtlety of feelings and strewn with small observations everywhere, that make me feel very good and could be interpreted for me as a main melody in that story.  -  that's comfortable.  This deep resonance is the joy of life for me. In other words, this result was the observer's "effort to understand" and the side to be observed "effort to restrain itself" , - I mean most of all time that could be unconscious or before you knew or automatically, for sure sometimes on purpose -,  were well-balanced and made them good composed, that is, could be said like that a brilliant result also was both of the character whose observing inside that story and reader's efforts trying to read it. The act of thinking deeply and observing can be praised in general but when I think about it again, it seems more difficult to take on the side of being observed. By the way, about that impressions in details, could be written down later in that blog - Well, let's get started to elongate my spine at first and breath in and out for a few times. Peace.